7lbs 11.2 oz
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
The incision, accompanied by the usual burning smell from the cauterizer, seemed to take forever, as I waited on pins and needles to hear that first little cry. The room erupted in laughter as my doctor opened the uterus and Zoe promptly stuck her hand out (looking for credit cards already, quipped the assistant). A minute later she was out and filling the air with a healthy bawl. As they were almost done sewing me back up and I was drifting in and out of a drug-induced haze, I could hear them counting the equipment - and they were missing some forceps. They ended up being in the asst. surgeon's pocket - ha ha (not!)
They brought Zoe to me in recovery and she latched on right away like a champ. Since I am still nursing JJ, she got milk right away. Everyone was amazed at how quickly she latched on and how long she ate (45 minutes!!) My little chow hound :)
Back in my room, JJ was completely unhappy that Mommy was in bed and couldn't get up. The 2nd day was a bit worse - he came in while I was nursing Zoe and started freaking out (No! Mine!) However, the 3rd day, I was nursing him and they brought Zoe in hungry. I asked him if it was OK if Zoe had some milk too and he said OK. So I put Zoe on the other breast. After a while, he straightened up and leaned over to watch her eat. Pointing at her, he says "Zozo, milk?" "Yes, Zoe is having some milk." he points at my other breast and then at himself "JJ, milk?" "Yes, you get milk too." This huge grin spread over his face and he clapped his hands together and almost shouted "Same!" then went back to nursing. Now, when they nurse together, he'll reach over and hold her hand while they're both on. It is heartbreakingly sweet. He calls her Zozo and corrects people when they call her Zoe.
Overall, I've recovered much much more quickly than last time, have had less pain, have been less drugged out/loopy, and feel able to do a lot more than I should. On the downside, I've come down with an ear infection and am back on antibiotics :( Zoe lost about 10 oz while in the hospital and had started gaining back weight before we left on Christmas eve (in a snow storm of all things!) By her appointment on Monday, she'd gained back nearly all her weight - she's only 1 oz shy of her birth weight now.
Welcome to the world Miss Zozo :)
Friday, December 18, 2009
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Monday, November 23, 2009
JJ runs up and grabs my knees, saying "Hold ya! Up up up!" this morning and when I look down to pick him up, I can't see him AT ALL. My belly is officially big enough it can obscure a toddler.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
- Before he nurses at night, he hauls a line up of toys into bed or the rocking chair and lets them "drink" milk first! Last night it was a purple bear, a fire engine, a taxi cab, and a spoon. After he's finished "sharing" he's ready to have some himself.
- Every time he pitches a fit for no reason other than not getting his way, he starts off wailing, but quickly moves to begging for a bobby pin. Yes, like a bobby pin for your hair. I have NO idea why. But if you give him one, it calms him down immediately and he's all lovey sweet and cuddly good boy again. It even works if he wakes up with a nightmare at night. Behold the magic bobby pin!
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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Sunday, September 20, 2009
JJ has done this before when he wants John to get me for "milk" but he reached a new high this weekend. He was signing "sick" at us, but we totally missed it (mostly because he never used that sign before). He goes and gets his book, brings it to us, flips to the page with the sick sign, points to it, signs it, says "sick, medsin" John asks him "Does something hurt? what hurts?" and JJ nods his head and signs "pain" and says "Hurt, head." Poor kid had a sinus headache and knew that some medicine (Tylenol) would help. He'd had a runny nose all weekend but it never even occurred to me he might have a headache.
Sometimes I just have to be grateful that at least one of us is on top of things - even if it's the toddler!
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Tuesday, July 7, 2009
What an exciting weekend! We got to visit my parents this weekend for the 4th and all my aunts and uncles were there and my sister and even one of my cousins! Tres cool! JJ was very good (of course) and we all had great fun.
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Monday, April 27, 2009
My cat, Paka, seems to have an affinity for my baby belly, even when it's not a proper "belly" yet. When I was pregnant with JJ and now again this time, she insists on sleeping on my belly. When I'm not pregnant, she sleeps on my legs - but not now. It's almost like she "knows" (although my theory is that I'm just awfully warm with all the extra blood volume). There is some evidence to suggest that pets can sense and do react to the pregnancy of thier owner. All the evidence seems anecdotal at best, but that doesn't stop Paka from snuggling up to her latest playmate and purring away. Of all the cats, she's the only one who lets JJ touch her - in fact, she will seek him out and snuggle up to him, rubbing and purring. Best buds...and hopefully she'll be the same way with the new little one.
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Thursday, March 26, 2009
Important things to remember and general items to get (and not get):
- Breastfeeding is HARD! Get a book (I recommend Breastfeeding Made Simple: Seven Natural Laws for Nursing Mothers by Nancy Mohrbacher and Kathleen Kendall-Tackett), read it BEFORE the baby gets here, take a class, and make sure you have a lactation consultant or at least an experienced breast feeding mother on hand in the hospital when you give birth. Most hospitals have one, just make sure they know you want to make use of her.
- Items sold for babies are often NOT for babies but for adults. For example, some play mats have all sorts of bells and whistles and bright colored spinning things….none of which the baby gives a flip about. They are designed to catch the parents eye and make you think “wow, I would love something like that.” Babies don’t care about all that stuff. They may find it entertaining briefly, but then they’ll be on to something else. In general, the more fancy a toy is, the less the child will play with it. Keep it simple – wooden toys, plastic rings that fasten together, brightly colored dolls/bears – these are the things that they will keep coming back to.
- Do not get anything that makes noise and doesn’t have an OFF switch. Trust me.
- Babies are weird. They will do strange things (like not poop for 10 days) and you will panic thinking there is something dreadfully wrong with them. Get one of the First Year books (like What to Expect or Baby Talk) to have on hand for reference. They are also fun for tracking “milestones” and figuring out what to feed them.
- Consider signing up for a service like Trixie Tracker. It’s basically a program that lets you input sleep times, feedings, diaper changes etc. For a data driven person like me, it was great because I was able to see patterns in behavior, reinforce them, and tailor our schedule around them. Without it, I’d’ve been lost – sleep deprivation mucks with your memory.
Worth spending the extra money on:
· A glider/rocker. This is an absolutely vital piece of equipment that is totally worth spending money on. Make sure it reclines far enough and is comfortable enough that you can fall asleep and is wide enough that you would be comfortable having a small child snuggled next to you to read them a book. This is a really expensive item (can be $500+) but is definitely worth it. We got one that doesn’t look like a nursery item so we can move it into the living room eventually - and it's a dark brown microfiber cloth so it's easy to clean!
· Car seat/travel system. Make sure it is easy to take in/out of the car and that you can put it in the stroller with one hand. Also make sure the stroller is the right height (or can be adjusted to the right height) for both you and your husband. Nothing is more miserable than a stroller handle that is too low (or high). We got a Chicco and were very pleased. Make sure it folds up small enough to fit in your car. The reason you want a travel system rather than a separate stroller/carseat is because babies fall asleep in the car all the time and you do NOT want to wake them up when you get where you are going. With a travel system, you just take the carseat and put it in the stroller and the baby stays asleep J
· Pack ‘n’ Play. Make sure you can break it down easily and includes a changing table. It is worth spending a bit more on this and getting a really nice one that has all the bells and whistles because you can use it as a crib in your room when you’re transitioning from the bassinet as well as a travel bed. Make sure it folds up small enough to fit in your car. We got a Graco and have liked it.
· Breast pump. If you’re breast feeding, this is a lifesaver. I won’t lie – you’ll hate using it. But it is great when you are travelling or when you need to be away from the baby for more than an hour or for letting hubby do the midnight feeding. It also makes working so much easier. I have the Medela Pump in Style. Make sure you get extra shields and a bunch of the 2.5oz bottles with a nipple that fits them. We called them JJ’s “shooters” and he was able to feed himself with them from a very early age. Also get the car adapter, some freezer storage bags, and then stock the bag with magazines and a pad of paper/pencil.
· Nursing bra. Go to a specialty shop that just does bras to get one of these so that it fits right and lasts. The ones they sell at Motherhood and similar stores are lame. Make sure you can fasten/unfasten the cups with one hand.
· A digital camera. You will want to take lots and lots of pictures. Get a good digital camera you are comfortable using, and practice with it before the baby arrives. We bought a great digital SLR (Canon EOS Rebel xTI) and it is the BEST thing we bought for the baby. I use online publishing services to make albums (like MyPublisher.com) and my parents love the grandparent albums I make for them too.
· Newborn pictures. Professionally done newborn shots are definitely worth it. I recommend doing a search for a local photographer - you can get some great deals and they can be more relaxed than some of the studios. We went with TimelessbyKelly and were very pleased.
Definitely buy, but don’t break the bank:
· Boppies and covers. A boppy is basically a C-shaped pillow you fit around middle that saves your arms from holding the baby up at the proper height for long periods of time while feeding or rocking. You’ll want two – one thicker than the other, preferably – and two covers for each. The extra covers are for the inevitable spit up/diaper leak issues so you can wash one while the other is on. The extra boppy is for the same reason – occasionally, you will get a serious leak or spit up and will have to wash the boppy itself. Plus, you can keep one on your side of the bed and one on your husband’s side, so you don’t both have to wake up to feed the baby.
· A sleep sheep or other white noise/nature noise maker. I like the little Sleep Sheep because it is very portable, velcros to the crib, bassinet, or any other handy piece of furniture, and has nature sounds (although the whales are kind of freaky). Whatever you pick, remember you will have to listen to it for hours, so “womb sounds” and “vacuum cleaner sounds” might not be the best pick J.
· Baby wearing system. I like the Moby wrap – it’s reasonably priced and easy to use. I also liked the Maya wrap, but it’s a bit more tricky to use (but much much nicer looking). Baby wearing systems let you do things around the house (laundry, dishes, etc.) while carrying your baby because your hands are free. I also used mine to go grocery shopping etc. because it’s a lot easier that hauling the baby carrier and stroller everywhere (those things have a huge footprint).
· Bouncy seat and swing chair. Both are good for soothing baby and freeing you up to move around a bit and do things like cook. JJ likes both, but some kids will only like one or another. These are good items to get used if you can.
· Bassinet. Make sure it fits in your room because that’s where it will be until he’s too big for it. Ideally, it should be the same height as your bed, so you can just roll over and scoop the little guy out when he wakes up in the night. You can get good used ones fairly inexpensively, just check for recalls first.
· Footie pajamas, sleep sacks and night sacks. It is nearly impossible to keep socks on them when they sleep. When they're really little, sleep sacks are nice because it is an easy “swaddling” which helps them feel contained. Night sacks (little night gowns with elastic at the bottom) are also great because they're really easy to change a diaper in - and you will change a lot of diapers. When they're a bit older and not peeing/pooping so much at night, I like the zipper PJs. I recommend you have at least 8 pairs of night clothes because they tend to leak through their diapers a lot in the first 3 months, so you often end up changing the pajamas/sleep sack and the diaper both.
· Onesies. They will live in onesies until they are about 9 months old. Then you will want pants/shirt combos. Before 9 months, avoid anything that is more than 1 piece.
· Changing pad. We got one of those contoured ones that is supposed to go on a changing table. We put it on the bathroom counter and it’s been great. (Note: You cannot turn your back for a second while the baby is on the pad, even with the little seatbelt fastened. They WILL wriggle out.)
· Bottles and pacifiers. We used Nuk bottles and pacifiers and never had any issue with “nipple confusion.” I also have some Dr. Brown’s glass bottles, which are nice but we didn’t use as much because he couldn’t hold them himself (too heavy).
· A baby quilt or play mat. You’ll want something to put him down on for tummy time. It doesn’t have to be fancy or complicated – we just used a quilt my mom made for him.
· Board books. You can’t have too many books. It will be a while before he’s interested, but they will be around for a long time. I recommend writing who gave it to him and the date in marker inside the front cover.
· Toys. Get simple things like brightly colored rattles. Things with lots of colors and textures are good – most everything will go in their mouths eventually, so keep that in mind.
· A sterilizer. Vital for bottles and pacifiers. We got a really simple one that goes in the microwave.
· Sleep masks. Important if you have trouble sleeping with the light on. You’ll want to leave a light on at first because you’ll keep checking on the little guy to make sure he’s breathing.
· Baby bathtub that fits in the kitchen sink. It’s really hard to bend over the tub when they’re really little, so you’ll want something you can put in the kitchen sink so you have better control.
· Nasal aspirator. The soft blue ones are best.
· Behind the ear thermometer. So much easier than putting one up his…um…well, you know.
· Thin plastic wipes containers. They’re a couple of bucks each. You can fill them up with wipes and tuck into a purse, backpack, laptop bag, etc. You can use them to clean your hands or the restaurant table as well as the babies bum.
· Plastic clip on rings. Lets you attach toys to everything – stroller, car seat, high chair, etc. – without them hitting the floor.
· Convertible, portable high chair. One that attaches to your kitchen chairs. They’re much less expensive than regular high chairs and do just as well. Plus they’re easier to use and to store when you’re done with them.
· Baby blankets. You can’t really have too many of these. Keep one in every car/room/etc.
· Prefolds. Even if you’re not doing cloth diapers, these are great for burp cloths and can be used as dusters later.
· A blender. Whether you plan on making your own baby food full time or not, a blender is great tool for quick meals. Just throw in a banana and voila! Baby food!
· Diaper cream. Eventually, he’ll get diaper rash. Usually at 3am or some other inconvenient to go to the store time. Get some diaper cream ahead of time.
Nice to have, but not vital:
· Moses basket. This is basically a mobile bassinet. It is really cool, but you won’t use it a lot, and they can cost a lot, so unless someone gives you one, I wouldn’t bother.
· Diaper bag. Honestly, an old messenger bag with your essentials works great. Dedicated diaper bags are, in my experience, poorly made and tend to fall apart quickly. My favorite diaper bag is an old west German gas mask bag my husband got at an army surplus store. I can put everything I need into it, it looks pretty cool, and it cost $2.
· Wipe warmers and bottle warmers. We got a wipe warmer for our shower and it has been nice, but I wouldn’t have bought it for myself. Maintaining it has been kind of a pain. We didn’t get a bottle warmer and ended up using a coffee cup filled half way with water, heated in the microwave. Pop the bottle in the warm water and voila! Cheap and it works great.
· Crib. I know this sounds nuts, but we’ve hardly used our crib at all. JJ stayed in his bassinet until he was too big, then we had him in the pack n play for a while because he wasn’t sleeping through the night. He only started using the crib about a month ago and honestly we could’ve gone straight to a toddler bed. I’ll be converting it to a day bed soon.
· Hooded baby towels and baby wash clothes. Regular towels and wash cloths work fine, but the little hoods are nice to have to make sure his head stays warm and the little wash cloths make it easier to clean behind his ears.
· Mommy and me anything. Classes, books…there’s a million. I’ve got Itsy Bitsy Yoga and it was a lot of fun. But then, so was just making faces at him.
· Changing pad covers. Pain to get on and off and cost too much. Get some water proof/resistant cloth scraps at a cloth store. They work great, cost very little and you can get all sorts of cute colors/patterns. You will get the cover messy OFTEN so you want something cheap and easy to whip on and off. I just folded the material up and laid it on top of the changing pad.
· Bumpers. They look cool, but the reality is that by the time the kid is in the crib (assuming you get one), you have to take the bumpers out because they’re a suffocation hazard.
· Baby shoes. They don’t really need them until they start cruising.
· Diaper pail. Waste of money. Get a good, kitchen trashcan with a step on flip up lid. You will be able to use your regular kitchen garbage bags (instead of expensive "specialty" bags), and you’ll be able to use the trashcan when the little guy is potty trained.
· Changing table. You can change a baby on any surface that is roughly waist high. And you will. J
· Baby shampoo, lotion, and detergent. Babies do not need special lotion, shampoo, or detergent. They can use ours. I do like the no-tears baby shampoo (it’s hard to get a baby to close their eyes when you’re rinsing their head), but for the rest, just use what you use on yourself. Honest.
· Pants/shirts/overalls. Cute but a real pain in the tuckus to change. Once they’re 9months+, the little outfits are great and easier to deal with.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
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Sunday, February 8, 2009
Well, today's the day. The little man is one year old - no longer a baby, now a toddler. He's had his first taste of cake (thought it was pretty tasty, but wasn't overwhelmingly enthusiastic), and soon he'll be walking.